As the biker lifestyle becomes more and more popular, there is a fast growing number of Christians starting their life of riding. They are more special than normal biker singles and friends, because they are Christian, a group of religious people who profess belief in Jesus Christ and pursue God’s wisdom. They believe that God wants the best for them in every aspect of lives, which includes relationship with others. So, it is the God’s will that they need to be careful about the date and the marriage. Here are some guidelines for Christian bikers to apply if they want to have a successful date.
1.The Proverbs states that “above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.” The Bible tells you to be very cautious about offering all your affections to another. Because the heart will influence everything in your life and will lead you to do anything you don’t intend to do. So, before you totally trust your date, don’t put all your feelings on this one.
2. Corinthians states that “Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” Although it doesn’t matter whether you are dating a Christian biker or a general biker single, it is better to have a relationship with Christian motorcycle riders. Because two Christian riders will have the same faith and will have more common interest, hobbies and habits.
3.Real love is defined in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. If you are in a relationship, then ask yourself these questions:
Are you patient with each other?
Are you kind to each other?
Are you never envious of each other?
Do you never boast to or about each other?
Is your relationship characterized by humility?
Are you never rude to each other?
Are you not self-seeking?
Are you not easily angered with each other?
Do you keep no record of wrongs?
Are you truthful with each other?
Do you protect each other?
Do you trust each other?
If your answers to these questions are all “yes”, then it should be admitted that you truly have a loving relationship. But if you answered “no” to any of the questions, then there may be some problems in your relationship and you should figure it out.
4. Before you start a Christian biker relationship, you should set boundaries according to the way you live your life. As a Christian motorcycle rider, there are two key boundaries you should set: one is ensuring you stay true to your faith and another is avoiding engaging in premarital sex. You set it and you should keep it.
5.A biker Christian relationship should just involve two Christian riders. But if you want to keep a long term one, you should seek help or advice from the Christian married couple. It will be best if they are bikers too. Because they know what is required to make a marriage work for Christian bikers.
6. As a Christian biker, you should seek God’s will in all things including dating. If you meet someone and you want to develop a relationship with this one, then you should ask “Lord, what is your purpose for bringing this person into my life?” This way will help you think rationally and make the right decision.